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  • Tobacco Usage: The Negative Consequences of a Nasty Vice

    I've been researching this topic for some time now and I must say, some smokers are good people. Ok, this we know. But by now, we should all also know that use of tobacco products (cigarettes, cigars, snuff, chewing tobacco) is disgusting and harmful for the human body. Yet many people let themselves become slaves to these products like the mindwashed consumers the tobacco companies want you to be.

    The use of snuff (which is popular with young white men) has been found to cause nasal cancer and increases hypertension. Chewing tobacco is highly associated with mouth and throat cancer.

    Smoking is particularly bad, not only for the smoker, but for every living thing around him. Those who continue this harmful habit are greatly increasing their chances of dying slow painful deaths due to the high amount of carcinogens present in tobacco products.

    A parent or guardian or babysitter who smokes in the presence of children should be thrown in prison for child abuse. Plain and simple. Your self-destructive behaviour has an even more damaging effect on others (second-hand smoke). No good parent could smoke inside the house nor around children at any time. To do so is abominable and destructive to the future well-being of the children and their future offspring as well. Ignorance is no excuse now! You have the facts and must therefore act accordingly.

    People who smoke while walking down the street (and mindlessly blowing smoke into other people's faces) and those who huddle together and smoke outside pubs or shops are disgusting and inconsiderate. Some smokers stand in the doorway while smoking; failing to realize that all the smoke is coming into the building anyway and thus harming others in the process.

    Smoking is also highly unattractive. I cannot tell you how off-putting it is to see someone smoking. We are creatures of biology and we want a mate who has the best genes. If a man smoked even a little bit, he has permanently damaged his genes and his own future health. Smoking, as we should all know by now, makes people look far older than they are. It rots your teeth, makes your skin grey and gives a general unhealthy look because, low and behold! It is making you unhealthy!

    I am thankful I was never thoughtless enough to try any of this garbage nor any other drug. Just because a few of my acquaintances were stupid enough to try this stuff, never for one moment tempted me to try it. I urge you, fellow young people, to have more backbone with your "friends" and refuse to try any substances which you know can create problems for you in the future. Your life is too precious to be wasted on such utter nonsense as these products are.

    All of the above was written out of concern for tobacco users, not out of any kind of malice. I have worked in a nursing home for three years and have seen the complete agony and destruction these products produce in people. I know it is very difficult to stop once a vice such as this has taken a hold of you, but for the sake of your own quality of life, that of your children and that of those around you, stop indirectly murdering other people and killing yourself...stop using tobacco products now!

  • Beautiful song

  • The Painted Veil (2006)

    I just finished watching this film and I was deeply moved by it. I must say I am easily moved, but this was a good film and the two leads, Edward Norton and Naomi Watts were highly impressive. It wasn't as Hollywood-esque as the original film starring Greta Garbo was, but was more realistic and grand in cinematography.

    This film just reminds me yet again of how fragile life is and how we must never take it for granted. Love can come into our lives, and some of us are too blind to see it until it is too late. I think there are many women in the world like Kitty (Watts), who are beautiful, frivolous and oftentimes bored. There are not many men like Walter (Norton), who was self-effacing and gentlemanlike and whose worth shone through immediately (well, to me at least!).

    As for the costume design, it was nice to see good English tailoring, though I must admit I think my wonderful boyfriend looks much better in that period gentlemen's attire than Norton did; but it was still nice to see him and the other characters thus apparelled.

    I really did like Naomi's hair in the film, though it was probably a wig. Nevertheless, I might just do something like that with mine someday.

    I am glad I saw this film (thanks to my honey) and I will recommend it to my friends.


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    "Lift not the painted veil"
    by Percy Bysshe Shelley

    Lift not the painted veil which those who live
    Call Life: though unreal shapes be pictured there,
    And it but mimic all we would believe
    With colours idly spread,--behind, lurk Fear
    And Hope, twin Destinies; who ever weave
    Their shadows, o'er the chasm, sightless and drear.
    I knew one who had lifted it--he sought,
    For his lost heart was tender, things to love,
    But found them not, alas! nor was there aught
    The world contains, the which he could approve.
    Through the unheeding many he did move,
    A splendour among shadows, a bright blot
    Upon this gloomy scene, a Spirit that strove
    For truth, and like the Preacher found it not.

  • "E Strano!" di La Traviata

    Avec la chanteuse Anna Netrebko.

  • The Problem with Affirmative Action

    This law is a plague upon society here in the United States, and to see a twin version of it being proposed in the United Kingdom is extremely disheartening.

    I am a white, educated woman in my early twenties. I have applied for countless positions throughout my area lately and have not been accepted.

    1) I have too much education - and they don't want to pay me accordingly.
    2) I am white, and they have the racial quota to fill.

    One example of this is how I went to apply as a librarian at my local library. This is a very good-paying job and I had all the qualifications for it(high school diploma, Associate's degree, two Bachelor's degrees). I applied, but so did a high-school dropout black woman. Guess who got the job?

    This black woman had few of the skills I have and yet she was picked because it is a government position and being a minority, she was preferred. I could, of course, have stated my ethnicity as Hispanic, which it is, but I thought this a cheap shot.

    I want to be hired for my merits, not my ethnicity. I would be absolutely ashamed to be hired for my race and not for my skills.

    (I probably have just ruffled a few feathers by labeling her "black." Give me a break, this political correctness has gone far enough).

    This doesn't only apply to careers, but to education as well. I have spoken with many professors about how I, who studied so much for a particular course, have a B and some minorities consistently failed their exams received a B grade as well. The answer was that they are forced by the law to pass these persons. What do you think that does to the state of society? People will be promoted from one grade to another, without having learned the necessary skills involved in each grade level. Once they hit college, the same applies (as they are required by law to be accepted into college, regardless of their skills) and they end up with Masters and Doctorates, but without the skills associated with such high degrees. This can and will harm people, and this devastating social law must come to an end.

    Don't people realize that reverse-discrimination is *still* discrimination?

  • Very true indeed

    Great minds discuss ideas;
    Average minds discuss events;
    Small minds discuss people.

    - Eleanor Roosevelt

  • Great Long-Distance Relationship Song

    The following song is by the Plain White T's. "Hey There, Delilah." I think it's perfect for LDR;s, including my own:

    Dedicated to the king of my heart. x

  • My Theatrical Experience

    I hope to be able to get back into acting sometime, though I do prefer stage acting more than film. I did one independent film when I was in high school, but I found that it wasn't as rewarding as theatre in the sense that there was no audience reacting to the scenes, which I find important. I really adore Shakespeare and I'd be especially happy to do one of those again. I love musicals and operas as well, but I find that I am more able to act than sing.

    * = award-winning piece/role

    2004-06
    Antigone - Antigone
    Blanche DuBois - A Streetcar Named Desire
    Lady Anne - Richard III
    Princess Isabella - The Spanish Tragedy
    Veronica Franco - The Honest Courtesan
    Christine Daae - The Phantom of the Opera
    Hamlet - Hamlet*
    Mrs. Mitty - The Secret Life of Walter Mitty

    2003
    Frenchie - Grease
    Queen Gertrude - Hamlet*

    2002
    Helena - A Midsummer Night's Dream
    Nita - The Shaman (FILM)

    2001
    Lady Macbeth - Macbeth*
    Juliet - Romeo & Juliet

    2000
    Hero - Much Ado About Nothing*
    Hermia - A Midsummer Night's Dream*

    1990
    Gilda - The Wizard of Oz

    VOICE:
    1998:
    Chanson Ensemble: operatic pieces*
    2007:
    Soprano I in SingLive performance at the Bob Carr Opera House in Orlando.

    Instrumental:
    1998 Flute duet "Windsong"

  • Bryan Adams

    I really enjoy a few of Bryan Adams's songs, especially those from the early 1990s. This song, Have You Ever Really Loved a Woman, is memorable to me because my sister and her husband used this song as their first dance at their wedding. Very romantic lyrics, and I agree with him.

    And I can't leave out my favourite song of his, Everything I Do, I Do it For You:

  • "The real suicide bomb"

    This image says it all:
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  • Ophelia

    From Shakespeare's Hamlet. Painting by Waterhouse.
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    "To the celestial, and my soul's idol, the most beautified Ophelia---

    Doubt thou the stars are fire,
    Doubt that the sun doth move;
    Doubt truth to be a liar,
    But never doubt I love.
    O dear Ophelia, I am ill at these numbers. I have
    not art to reckon my groans; but that I love thee best,
    O most best, believe it. Adieu.
    Thine evermore, most dear lady, whilst this
    machine is to him,

    HAMLET."

  • The Birth of Venus by Sandro Botticelli

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    Sandro Botticelli was in a league all his own. Above is a close-up of the famous Birth of Venus. Notice the exquisite brushwork applied, especially around the facial features. His model, who was a young Italian lady Simonetta Vespucci who died at age twenty-two. Her great beauty inspired many of his masterpieces and she remained his muse even after her death.
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  • Brush Up Your Shakespeare!

    These men have some tips for single men out there:


    The girls today in society
    Go for classical poetry,
    So to win their hearts one must quote with ease
    Aeschylus and Euripides.
    But the poet of them all
    Who will start 'em simply ravin'
    Is the poet people call
    The bard of Stratford-on-Avon.

    Brush up your Shakespeare,
    Start quoting him now.
    Brush up your Shakespeare
    And the women you will wow.
    Just declaim a few lines from "Othella"
    And they think you're a heckuva fella.
    If your blonde won't respond when you flatter 'er
    Tell her what Tony told Cleopaterer,
    And if still, to be shocked, she pretends well,
    Just remind her that "All's Well That Ends Well."
    Brush up your Shakespeare
    And they'll all kowtow.

    Brush up your Shakespeare,
    Start quoting him now.
    Brush up your Shakespeare
    And the women you will wow.
    If your goil is a Washington Heights dream
    Treat the kid to "A Midsummer Night Dream."
    If she fights when her clothes you are mussing,
    What are clothes? "Much Ado About Nussing."
    If she says your behavior is heinous
    Kick her right in the "Coriolanus."
    Brush up your Shakespeare

  • Thongs: Neither Fashionable Nor Hygenic

    Many people consider thongs sexy. Realistically, they are both conduits for germs to spread, causing yeast infections and also they are inelegant.
    Doctors and researchers have concluded that thongs, "can cause infections, damage the musculoskeletal system and impact fertility."

    Also, "One way a thong might be a culprit of infection is that it can serve as a conduit for bacteria. Since a thong is a continuous and close fitting strip of fabric, it can easily pick up fecal matter and bacteria from the anus, and if the thong moves, can carry that matter forward to the vagina and urinary tract. One gynecologist likened a thong to a subway car transporting bacteria from the rectum to the vagina. UTIs and some types of vaginitis (although not yeast infections) are caused by bacteria, often from fecal matter, which is why thongs could be implicated in some instances of infection."

    Thongs were originally inspired by primitive peoples in tribal societies.
    Can you imagine Grace Kelly wearing a thong? I thought not. We are supposed to be living in a civilized society, and therefore, should act, and dress, accordingly.

    Why not instead use a nice lacy cotton panty? Not only is this elegant and comfortable but it is also more hygenic than thongs. And, having your thong or any kind of underwear show is in very poor taste.

    Don't take my word for it, have a look at the following links:
    http://www.ama-assn.org/amednews/2002/08/05/hlsc0805.htm
    http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/195176/what_every_woman_needs_to_know_about.html?cat=7

  • Lady or Ladette?

    I don't normally read this sort of thing, but I went to Cosmopolitan online and had a look at some of the forums there. One topic under discussion was about being more elegant and ladylike. According to one post by the "elegance trainer," 8 out of 10 British women wish they were more elegant. Many women responded and it was immediately apparent that they simply don't know how to be elegant.

    One woman said:

    I have a bad habit of swearing. I know it's pretty bad but I can't seem to stop. Any tips to get rid of my foul mouth?

    Note. A lady does not have a foul mouth. If a woman wishes to be more respectable amongst her peers, she ought to acquire a better, less foul vocabulary.

    Another woman said something very true:

    ...women should accept with politeness when offered a seat and not refuse with a feminist attitude. Train the men in your life to be more gentlemanly by waiting for them to open the car door for you
    If we all refuse to act like ladies, why should we therefore complain about there not being any gentlemen in the world? (There are gentlemen, but they won't be found at bars, sports functions, or nightclubs...and neither will you find ladies at such places).

    I think most modern women would benefit from an intense Jane Austen and Classics reading session, etiquette and elocution class and a dose of modesty. Sure, we have proved that we are capable of doing many things that men do, but does that mean that we have to become men now?

    I don't know about you, but I am very happy to be a woman, and proud to be a lady.

  • So In Love

    "So In Love" by Cole Porter, from Kiss Me, Kate!

    Strange dear, but true dear,
    When I'm close to you, dear,
    The stars fill the sky,
    So in love with you am I.
    Even without you,
    My arms fold about you,
    You know darling why,
    So in love with you am I.
    In love with the night mysterious,
    The night when you first were there,
    In love with my joy delirious,
    When I knew that you could care,
    So taunt me, and hurt me,
    Deceive me, desert me,
    I'm yours, till I die.....
    So in love.... So in love....
    So in love with you, my love... am I....

  • Circe offering the Cup to Ulysses

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    By Waterhouse

  • Chopin's piano concerto No. 2, 2nd movement.

  • Oboe Concerto by Marcello

    One of my absolute favourite pieces.

  • Wisdom from the Bard

    "Love is a smoke made with the fume of sighs;
    Being purg'd, a fire sparkling in lovers' eyes;
    Being vex'd, a sea nourish'd with lovers' tears;
    What is it else? A Madness most discreet,
    A choking gall, and a preserving sweet."


    - William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet (Act I, Scene i) 

  • I'm Old-Fashioned, Rita Hayworth

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    Rita Hayworth, is my favourite actress from the 1940s (and fellow "Hispanic"), when women were still proud to be elegant and feminine. Her famous red hair was originally dark brown and I've always thought that she grew more beautiful as time went by. I have included two clips from her films, the first being a dance and song with the great gentleman Fred Astaire in You Were Never Lovelier and the second is from Cover Girl with the equally great Gene Kelly.
    I have purposefully left out Gilda, as everyone always talks about that film and I've already written an entry about it, which you can find in the film section. Great film, though, but I suggest viewing all of the classic films from the 30s, 40s and 50s before Hollywood went to the trash because these films not only make you feel good, but you usually end up coming away from them having learned something. Which is more than I can say about most Hollywood films these days.

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  • Amazon Marketplace

    I've just begun selling some of my DVD's and CD's on Amazon Marketplace. I think it's a great way to make a little cash on the side. Goodness knows we all can use it these days. I'm so thankful I don't have to drive to UCF everyday this semester- I'm saving a ton of money for gas.

  • Sarah Brightman's Symphony Tour!

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    I just received the email from the Sarah Brightman fan club which informed us about Sarah's new world tour for her new album, Symphony. I'm so excited because I've wanted to see her live shows for ever. While I was able to see her perform in The Phantom of the Opera when I was three, I don't really remember that performance or my actually meeting her afterwards. She'll be performing at my university, UCF Arena. It's so very exciting, even if it is slightly nerdy, because she makes such beautiful music and I adore her vocal quality and talent. Now, Sarah is a lady and I don't mind if people look up to her as a role model. She doesn't smoke, do drugs, is not foul-mouthed and is sweet and elegant. The show will be in November and I think I'll get my tickets next week, if possible. :)

    Click here for the tour schedule.

  • Jane Austen

    Jane Austen


    "Every man is surrounded by a neighborhood of voluntary spies."

    -- Jane Austen, author of my favourite books: Pride & Prejudice, Sense & Sensibility, Persuasion, Emma, Northanger Abbey and Mansfield Park.

  • Stretch Marks

    A friend of mine recently had a baby and has stretch marks on her abdomen now. This is perfectly normal in women who have given birth and for people who've lost weight and even for adolescents who have had rapid growth.

    According to the Wikipedia, between 70 and 90% of women get stretch marks. Glucocorticoid hormonal changes are the leading factor that causes this. There is no cure for stretch marks, but there are some creams that can slightly reduce the appearance of them.

    My aforementioned friend has had some issues after the birth of her child. Her husband is "displeased" with her appearance and is seeking separation unless she gets rid of the stretch marks. I find this situation absurd for a variety of reasons. First, she had *his* child and must therefore have immediate respect for going through nine months of labour and a difficult delivery. Second, there was really no way to prevent them. And third, this guy really is a jerk to be criticizing her for this.

    I have had some stretch marks since adolescence because I was a chubby pre-teen. I know plenty women my age and younger who have stretch marks and although we don't like them, we are not going to be ashamed about them. The multitude of hormonal changes one experiences throughout life can greatly affect the form of the body.

    Real men won't mind stretch marks on a woman because they are a completely natural result of normal changes in the body. Anyone who says different should educate themselves properly on the subject.

  • The Notebook and Billie Holiday's Classic

    I recently saw this film, The Notebook, and thought it was exceptionally well-made for an American film and is set in one of my favourite time periods, the 1940s. I adore this song by Billie Holiday, and it's perfect for the film but it's also perfect for my relationship. We work so well together because we share the same core values, the same interests. He is the epitome of a gentleman and I admire and respect him greatly. So, here's to my wonderful, sweet, very much loved boyfriend Gavin...I'll be seeing you, darling. x

  • Lord Byron

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    "Always laugh when you can. It is cheap medicine."
    Lord Byron

  • Doctors and Nurses: What They Do

    I am sick and tired of people suing for so-called "medical malpractice." Or suing because a doctor "fondled their breasts." How ridiculous. I thought everyone knew that doctors and nurses and other healthcare providers are obliged to examine all parts of the human body in order to make sure everything's normal. I just went for my yearly examination and the doctor touched my breasts in the exam, but am I going to say I was molested? Of course not! How dare so many people accuse good healthcare workers of molestation and other sexual crimes when what they do may in fact be part of their job. I know some do things that are inappropriate, but the amount of lawsuits filed is abominable. There really can't be that many bad health care workers out there. This is what I have a problem with- those people who falsely accuse medical workers of indecent behaviour in order to make money.

    Take, for example, how there are some male caretakers of female patients. The female patients must be cleaned everywhere, including their genital region which involves opening the labia and cleaning the area. Some silly women interpret this cleaning process as a form of "sexual abuse."

    Also, male patients do this as well. An invalid male must also be cleaned and this involved taking the penis and moving the foreskin down and cleaning the area of the glans under the hood to remove the smegma and other accumulation of bodily fluids. Some males call this "sexual abuse" as well, even though it is required of the staff to touch these areas of the body in order to keep everything clean and hygenic in order to avoid infection.

    People who are so ready to accuse medical staff of molestation are simply either a)greedy for money or, b) mentally unstable.

    Yes, I understand that there are a few bad seeds in every profession. But, my question is: Do we really need to let a few bad health care workers make everyone a potential criminal?

  • The Promotion of bad values

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    I saw this while walking through Cocoa Village, and I do not agree with the message promoted by this sign. So, good girls get respect and naughty girls get jewelry? How silly. This is just another way of saying, "If you're a good girl, you won't have fun. But, if you're a bad girl with no conscience or heart, you'll get material things!" A decent woman will prefer respect rather than jewels. A real relationship over a sugar daddy. Only superficial persons value goods more than anything else. Will that fat bank account or closet full of designer clothing keep you warm at night?

    This reminds me of that famous Marilyn Monroe song, Diamonds are a Girl's Best Friend, because it condones behaviour that focuses on relationships based on the acquisition of material items rather than emotional needs. The character that Monroe played, Lorelai Lee, was such a person- "I always say a kiss on the hand might feel very good, but a diamond tiara lasts forever."

    Perhaps it's because I was raised without much money (more like at or below the poverty line) and my family never emphasized the financial over the emotional. I am lucky, in that respect, that I haven't been tainted by that common greed for money, position and power which is so pervasively found in today's society.

    So, when I saw this sign, I thought it rather ridiculous - that this shop, which sells clothing and memorabilia from Gone With the Wind, should advocate such behaviour.

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