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I'm so happy because he's back and he's my world.

Dedicated to my darling Gavin. xx

There are far too many societally-condoned bad behaviours out there. I will address one of them today. I absolutely loathe evil women. By evil, I mean the ones who deliberately set out to destroy someone else's relationship not out of love for one in said relationship, but out of spite and anger. I often feel like it is a jungle out there, and women are the ones playing games with each other over men, and it has to stop. No true lady does any of the bolded below. Here's some advice to those women out there who are contemplating malicious actions:

No one wants to share their man with someone else. If we wanted that we would be Mormons or members of polygynous tribes throughout the world. But we are not. We value monogamy for a reason, it is the best. A man shouldn't want to share his wife or girlfriend with others, and likewise a woman doesn't want to share her husband or boyfriend with others.

He's on the plane right now, and I'm busy working on finishing up two papers so I don't have to go to class today or tomorrow. Then, I'll have to do all the lady stuff- which is fun for me, I like dressing up, doing my hair and makeup and this is just another perfect opportunity to do it all.

The Soul takes flight into the world that is invisible, and there arriving is assured of bliss, and forever dwells in paradise."
- Plato

This seems like a good quote for today, as he is flying into a world that is invisible (the sky, clouds, etc) and there arriving (here) is assured of bliss (oh yes) and forever dwells in paradise (I happen to live in a tropical climate- paradise).

...about marriage.
"Women often marry in the hope the man will change, but he doesn’t. Men often marry in the hope the woman won’t change, but she does."
This is often thought to be the case, but let's analyze said truth.

Focusing on the former section of this cliche, we have the belief that women marry men in the hope that the man will change. Of course, some women do this, but it is silly to think that a man will change just because you marry him. Also, it is well-known that men can change just by knowing a woman, speaking with her and such that his life is changed as a result. But, never believe that all women seek to marry men to change them.

Now onto the latter portion, men often marry in the hope that the woman won't change, but she does. Let's see where this would be true: a) the man was just attracted to her sexually and did not take the time to get to know her views on life and core beliefs, only after they are married and are forced to spend more time together do these opinions magically come to light. b) a woman can change in her appearance if she has children, and thus changes from what she was before. Granted, this is different for all women, but they are changed emotionally as well because their priorities are no longer their husband but the child. This can lead to problems as some men feel threatened by the child, as if it has taken away all the attention and affection.

We need to remember that not all men and women who marry think like this. It is shameful that even the few good ones out there are lumped in with those who have no idea how to live properly. Marriage should happen when two people cannot live without each other, do not wish to live separately and who have the same goals and life priorities. It is completely wrong to marry someone solely because you like them sexually. What happens when that goes? You'll be stuck with someone who doesn't share your views, your core beliefs, your dreams for the future. What kind of life is that?

"Give me a man who is man enough to give himself just to the woman who is worth him. And if that woman were me, I would love him alone...and forever."

I couldn't have said it better myself. I have such a man, such a rare and wonderful man, whom I know I will love always.

for my man sometime this month.

"Mmmmm...."

English mediaeval girl band Mediaeval Baebes here with Delerium with the song entitled, Aria.

and, of course, my favourite Mediaeval Baebes song: Temptasyon.